Women Helping Other Women

Hey Women, do it your way for the New Year, do it your way.
Put all that stuff you did in prospective and reconcile it with the knowlede that you did it your way. So you messed up,f-uped or what have you.... You did what you could and now it's behind you, so let it go down the highways, byways, the penisulas whatever way, it's behind you. You did it your way and now your way is different an improved 2010 version. So, re-boot up and let it go. You won't be sorry!

Women Helping Other Women

Today is the eve of the New Year; the last day of this year's drama. Throw all of those those people, places, things, and thoughts you no longer need and want into a tightly sealed trunk. A trunk that could not be opened even if a Magical Genie was bequething you with 3 wishes. You know that when you throw something out, that you let it go and then its gone. But let it leave your mind too. It is useless, has no value, you no longer need it, you choose not to be the owner any longer and finally you never want to think why you had it in the first place. The New Year is about a new you. When you let all those things go, you are making room for the new. Yes, I realize that it is not easy to let go. But to hold on and to something that is no longer right for you is not good. Ladies, let go, give it up, turn it over, and release yourself of all that waste. Today, after the garbage in your life has been disposed of, sit down and thank yourself. Remind yourself that you did the only thing you could do because the garbage you disposed of was soiling you.
So with that said, start going over what you need to throw away and then throw it away because the New Year is approaching, one that has billed you as a WINNER!
Happy New Year's Eve to everyone and everything...that is unless you're in my trunk!

Women Helping Other Women

Today is fantastic for me and you. Whatever our circumstances it could and is worse for someone else. I know you've heard that before but it is what it is the truth.
Sometimes the truth is boring, repetitive, unfashionable , but the truth is true.
What if: You would like to be a perfect size 8 but the truth is you're a perfect size 18. Well that truth is if you want that size 8 you perhaps need to experience hunger or hunger and exercise. But in order to be that size 18 and growing all you have to do is eat all the delicious foods you crave and relax..
Well the truth is there for us all just take notice it will guide you in the direction of other truths; before you know it you will send false, fakes,and lies packing. Just keep it real.

Women Helping Other Women

Today is designed just for you. Do something wonderful for yourself, like relaxing in a bath full of bubbles. Pick up the newpaper and nap while trying to read the editorials.
The little things in life make the big things easier.
How?
By focusing on you. You my friend can put cracks in concrete, make champagne glasses ping, make heads turn with your smile remember who you are and that you were magnificently made.
WHOW!

Women Helping Other Women

What if he leaves? How will you survive? Do you want him to stay because of money,the kids, the house or because you love him?
Relationships, so many twist and turns. But the good news you can survive with just you.
Being unhappy kills the essence of you the inner spirit the soul. So, if you must suffer do so without the help of a mate who is unkind, unattentive, abusive verbally and at times physically.
We empower men to think that they are in possession of us. That we are a commodity that they can pick up and put down at their leisure.
Well ladies, stop! Men like strong women with a hint of delicacy. Women that will not break and keep it moving.
Recently, I spoke to a woman who has filed for a divorce after years of being abused,kicked,stomped and spit upon. You name it he did it she allowed it. But that handsome guy she married had the guts to ask this question (while in divorce court): Can we start dating again after the divorce?
What nerve huh?
Well,friends she empowered him until the end.
She was blushing when she told me what he said like he was Prince Charming or something.
Ladies. let's wake up and realize that everything that looks good is not good for us. Women, make choices that fit your needs not the needs of others...

Women Helping Other Women

Hello, today's topic is getting it back on track. We all miss our goals at some time or another in our lives.
How do we get back on track? Don't look back.
Looking back is a big mistake because those dark volcanos behind you;that pit is seeking to suck you back into the hot lava.
So you just point yourself in the direction that you think you would like to venture into and keep on stepping.
Involve yourself with the positivity inside of you and surround yourself with people who are seeking to stay on, get back or looking for the right track.
Friends I will see you on that track because everyday we fall off in one way or another......
But remember, look straight ahead!

WomenHelping Other Women

Monday, back to work, maybe back to school, back to sleep, back to him.
Back to something. Whatever you go back to tday remember go back by choice, not by force or obligation. Go back because it is what's best for you. Go at it today by choice and be content with the choice. Ladies have a good day!

Women Helping Other Women

Goodmorning, it is now 1:18am and I want you to know that it will be ok, if you let things be. That means do not pass go, don't look to the left or right just be. Basically, we all look for gratification in things, people or places. I say it ain't so just look within yourself and help is there waiting on you. Let's play the what if game: You wake up and the lights are turned off for non-payment. What are you going to do? Call around for a loan, write a check that you know is NSF, or go and get some candles. If you selected the candle option you are on target. The other two methods probably would lead to stress. Hey you can borrow some candles if need be but borrowing money is always bad news. Just take a little candlelight break and decide your next plan of action. Remember, to blow out the candles before you close your eyes. Have a great morning!

Women Helping Other Women

Hi, this is my very 1st blog and I am excited for you as well as me. My intention is to remind you of something you already have; but have forgotten. What? You.
Life is full of twist and turns full of should ofs, would ofs., could ofs. But all we have is now so let's live each day helping one another.
Here's a little scenario that may or not fit:
Tis the night after Xmas and all through the house not a bill is paid and I feel like the maid. Ever feel like you are living life just going through the motions? Well I do, trying to live up to expectations that are sometimes impractical. Like over spending. Let's check ourselves and others that money does not control us we control the money.